15. to help others as much as possible to help. Can not help

1. Patience of the essence, you have to earn less you earn, you would like to have no sense of shame you shameless, casually. I will hand to you, I give; I can not give, you find someone else to go. As for the others to not give, that is your business has.
2. to deal with fake people, not criticize her, not expose her, but she continued sadly hypocritical about it, then pretend to know nothing. Then slowly, a lot of people would take the initiative came to tell you how fake her.
3. to deal with selfish people, not hate her, not to ignore her, but gradually passed from her heart away from her, and then pretend to know nothing. If she went to someone else, then you will find that many people stay away from her.
4. never have a person you can not do without, and now can not be separated, and does not mean forever inseparable. Nothing you can not give up, you do not give up giving up before you could maybe.
5. In addition to parents, no one is unrequited. Hello is based on love, harmony lovers on the premise, friends hello loneliness is the common interest and the elimination of the premise. Other people, not to mention.
6. a person living Although it is difficult,chocolate brown, but one must learn, Do not rely on other people. This is to prevent the people around you are leaving, you can live on.
7. sick, they have to focus on their own, who attach importance to what you can not wait. Until then, you will find yourself either physically or have been suffering in mind.
8. alone in different places to study, to learn more and contact the parents to communicate, to learn to listen to elders so. To learn patience, forbearance, there is nothing that you can not, then someone else wrong, it is not worthwhile to take other people's mistakes punish yourself.
9. other people and you say, for any mind to the letter but not the whole letter. However, when people say, listen as carefully as possible and carefully respond to, which is respect for human beings.
10. Do not test your friends, or you are not disappointed, that is more a "crazy + want too many" hats.
11. Do not make one sentimental, even if you are really sentimental. Others may not understand your sentimentality, nor the duties and responsibilities. In this case, you want the vent becomes disgraced itself and deepen the pain.
12. In any situation, can not play with other people, who will be playing to play. You Xinyan you again, not the most powerful one.
13. Do not try to steal other people's interests are, but they can not condone people grab their own. This is the principle.
14. there is no need to envy other people's success, popularity, status, scholarships and the like. Five reasons: 1, people may actually pay more than you, but you do not see. 2, these things only bring temporary satisfaction, rather than a permanent meeting, not worth mentioning. 3, and there are not you playing to the rules of the game, playing to the people who are tiring of. 4, you have less people, there must be better than others, and wait time. 5, no competition for these, your friends more.
15. to help others as much as possible to help. Can not help, and do not force themselves.
16. For people who like against you, first of all to reflect on their own objective, to correct their own to eliminate its causes. Second, look at how naive she is, let her unhappy better.
17. and their habits for different people, the distance moved further apart, then each living their own, does not affect other people, do not ask others to change.
18. good brothers out afterwards. Do not engage in too complex accounts, the money given by parents, not their own making, and in order to save the flower.